Friday, February 26, 2010

Burnt Bisquits

February 26, 2010

(This just came on my e-mail. I generally don't send things on, but this is one I wanted to keep, so what better place to keep it than here.)

BURNED BISCUITS.............

When I was a kid, my mom made breakfast food for dinner every now and then. And I remember one night in particular when she had made breakfast after a long, hard day at work. On that evening so long ago, my mom placed a plate of eggs, sausage and extremely burned biscuits in front of my dad. I remember waiting to see if anyone noticed! Yet all my dad did was reach for his biscuit, smile at my mom and ask me how my day was at school. I don't remember what I told him that night, but I do remember watching him smear butter and jelly on that biscuit and eat every bite!

When I got up from the table that evening, I remember hearing my mom apologize to my dad for burning the biscuits. And I'll never forget what he said: "Honey, I love burned biscuits."

Later that night, I went to kiss Daddy good night and I asked him if he really liked his biscuits burned. He wrapped me in his arms and said, "Your Momma put in a hard day at work today and she's real tired. And besides - a little burnt biscuit never hurt anyone!"

You know, life is full of imperfect things.....and imperfect people. I'm not the best at hardly anything, and I forget birthdays and anniversaries just like everyone else.

What I've learned over the years is that learning to accept each others faults - and choosing to celebrate each is one of the most important keys to creating a healthy, growing, and lasting relationship.

And that's my prayer for you today. That you will learn to take the good, the bad, and the ugly parts of your life and lay them at the feet of God. Because in the end, He's the only One who will be able to give you a relationship where a burnt biscuit isn't a deal-breaker!

We could extend this to any relationship. In fact, understanding is the base of any relationship, be it a husband-wife or parent-child or friendship!" Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket - keep it in your own."

God Bless You..... Now, and Always....

So Please pass me a biscuit, and yes, the burnt one will do just fine.!.!.!.!

3 comments:

The Mighty Yam said...

I always thought it was funny when Yosimite Sam got blown up and then hopped around shouting "My biscuits are burning, my biscuits are burning."

Michelle said...

Hey Lar-this is Sandy=thanks for the Burnt Bisquits--I used it in my class at school this week--great lesson to teach and it was desperately needed! Thanks!

out numbered said...

Love it! Actually brought a little tear to my eye, maybe because some days I feel like that mom that burnt the biscuits and I am grateful for a husband that understands. Thanks for sharing!